“Funny how your life improves when you surround yourself with positive, affirming, accepting and non-judgmental people.”— Unknown (via onlinecounsellingcollege)
I love my Jake. He is my rock and biggest fan ❤️
Tough Realizations Of Life
People are allowed to leave you.
People are allowed to break up with you.
People are allowed to love you but not want to be with you.
People are allowed to not want to talk to you.
People are allowed to put their happiness before yours and do what makes them happy, even if it does not include you.
People are allowed to move on from you.
People are allowed to fall in love with someone else.
People are allowed to not want you in their life.
People are allowed to do whatever they want to better themselves and become the version of themselves they are trying so hard to love.
Don’t be bitter towards someone who is only trying to be happy.
I agree with the relationship ones only to an extent because it depends on how the person is handling the situation. I understand you can’t force someone to feel something they don’t. I’ve been on both sides of the spectrum. However, if someone keeps dragging you on then yes, they are “allowed” to not want to be with you… but that doesn’t give permission to toy with someone. Not saying that everyone does that although it happens more often than not. On the other hand, people are also ALLOWED to be upset about situations like these. People are ALLOWED to have their feelings feel valid. People are ALLOWED to be bitter towards someone who wronged them. It goes both ways sometimes.